Life Abroad @ Valor ~ You Are Not to be Called Rabbi
I have a dear friend who is a constant source of encouragement to me by his mindfulness of my family in his daily prayers and his thoughtful words of affirmation expressed in the pithiest of emails. He has, however, one habit that is, for me, an indirect admonishment. He makes a practice of calling me "rabbi." Now, he is so good-natured and devoted to my well-being that I would never call into question his motivations, but . . . . he also well knows this instruction from lips of Jesus: But you are not to be called rabbi, for you have one teacher, and you are all brothers. And call no man your father on earth, for you have one Father, who is in heaven. Neither be called instructors, for you have one instructor, the Christ. The greatest among you shall be your servant. Whoever exalts himself will be humbled, and whoever humbles himself will be exalted. (Matthew 23:8–12) Here in Korea, honorific titles are very important. It is part and parcel of Confucian cu...